Yep, today is me birthday, lassies (I say with my really bad Irish accent) and I’m spending it being tremendously grateful to the loved ones in my life, particularly my wonderful husband, Val. He is my clown when I’m feeling down, the one to tell me to just breathe when I’m freakin’ out, and the one person who reminds me what I’m capable of doing when I’m filled with self-doubt. He brings me hot tea when I’m cold and for my birthday bought me a fluffy new robe and slippers to survive this insanely cold Texas winter. I love him. Seriously love him.
I’m also reflecting on how I’ve been so worried about “getting old” – I mean I’m almost 40 (okay in a few years, but still). But in my heart, I’m the awkward girl who doesn’t really know how to dance or dress right. The girl who still believes we can all heal the world with the love in our hearts. And still loves to spin in circles on the marry-go-round. The girl who giggles too much at Adam Sandler movies and cries too easily at the stories where love conquers all.
And I reflect on the impact I’m making in life. Once feeling like the thousand+ people I’m connected with on facebook was just an inflated number of “friends” until today, my birthday, when I’m overwhelmed with the outpour of love sent out by you all. New names, old names, all taking a moment to brighten my day and let me know I’m not forgotten. Each note, each text message, each IM is dear to my heart and I love you all!
This year is the year of Rita. This is the year I’m going to actually use the mini-trampoline that has been sitting downstairs getting dust. This is the year I’m going to make my vision board and go after my dreams. This is the year I’m going to turn fear into goals accomplished. This is the year I’m going to love even more and not forget to tell the special people in my life just how much they mean to me. One day at a time… stay tuned!
XOXO!
Rita Q
Me and my husband, Val











