“What you are about to witness could be considered an act of terrorism.” These are the first words to leave the officiant’s mouth at the opening of this very untraditional wedding ceremony. And my very first “official” wedding photography event.
Marcus and D’Ann specifically asked close friend and Deadline Live radio show host, Jack Blood, to help lead their “anti-wedding” celebration. The two, who are very active politically, decided to do things in the way of the old world, where man and wife profess their love in front of family and friends, in the comfort of home, and didn’t require permission from any governments.
The entire event was an expression of their beliefs and vision. From the black wedding dress purchased at Hips and Curves, to the black wedding cake, and even wedding rings that fit perfectly on, yep you guessed it, their middle fingers.
Everyone could feel the excitement in the air and I felt honored to be asked to capture such a unique experience for the two of them. Marcus and D’Ann were friends since high-school who had each gone their own way, and then found each other again on, of all places, facebook. In time, friendship grew to love. And it’s obvious they really are the best of friends, filled with mutual respect and admiration.
I don’t think I’ve ever laughed so hard while doing a photo gig and I’m forever changed by being around these two incredibly fun-loving, heartfelt, and passionate people. And I can’t even express how grateful I am to you both for trusting me to be your photographer on such an incredible day for you. I’m happy to call you my friends and wish you all the love this life has to offer.
xoxo!
Rita Q





























